More content added on 12th
June 2017
On male female relationships
People give practical advice
regarding sex---safe methods, avoiding unwanted pregnancy, prevention against
diseases etc.
It is good to give practical advice;
I once met an ascetic living in a cave in the Himalaya, I asked him about
enlightenment, he told me that the first sign of getting enlightened is
practical thinking and sound reasoning, so it is good to be practical and give
practical advice to others
But I ask this fundamental question
that every parent should discuss with their children and every adult who guides
youth must ask this question to them---having evolved from lower life forms to
the stage of a human being, where we have developed a huge forehead (lower life
forms do not have a forehead) and intellect (buddhi) which allows us to discriminate
between right and wrong---is sex so very important that we cannot think of
anything else, it literary rules our life
Lust rises in youth, rages along its
course, and then subsides; (however this is not always the case now a days many
aged people are all sexed up, full of passion, the Mahabharat which convey all
divine teachings in a story form for todays degraded generation, clearly
explains this in the first chapter itself, where at an old age King shantanu fell in love with
satyavati and wanted to marry her). But between start and finish much of
a lifetime is usually passed away, and it
is a sad fact that many people would have achieved so much in their lifetime
had they not wasted their precious life in pursuing sexual pleasures /
companionship
Desires were placed in a human for a
purpose; nature wants humans to procreate
It is very natural to get attracted
to the opposite sex; and further why man and woman are attracted towards
certain body parts and find them sexy has a scientific reason
Men prefer women with big, round
breast and healthy thighs because a woman with healthy thighs can support and
take the weight of a healthy baby during pregnancy and big round breast can
store more milk for the baby; on the other hand women get attracted to a big
genital because a big organ can deposit sperms more deep inside the womb—nature provided this natural tendencies
which later took the form of attraction, so there is nothing vulgar in it;
it is the theory of sexual selection
and this is also the reason why woman are so very choosy in selecting their
partners because unlike the male who can produce millions of sperms a woman
only produces one egg a month, and it is her God given responsibility to ensure
that she produces better and better offspring’s, so she cannot be irresponsible
in choosing her partner
However, I quote Paul Brunton “When
the mating urge descends on men or women, they develop a temporary but immense
capacity for glorifying the beloved person, seeing beauties and virtues which
may be quite slight or even non-existent. With the eyes so widely out of focus,
nature achieves her purpose with ease”
Food and sex ages a
person
Observe how the body of a person
gets transformed after an active sex life, a slim body of a youth turns to that
of a man, a girl changes into a woman
Two things age you
faster----sex and food
The British started doing a survey /
census in India from the city of Banaras; they found out that the Hindu widows have
a big lifespan
The Hindu widows are left in Banaras
to die, then how come they have the biggest lifespan compared to all
others?
The conclusion was that, the Hindu
widow is always fasting and given a small quantity of simple food and she does
not have an active sex life, the same results were found India wide
So always remember
that food and sex ages you and they both are also responsible for lost health
and unpleasant diseases
The less you eat and the less you
have sex, the healthier you become and I add this also take long walks you will
always be healthy
We come across so many old couples,
it is even difficult for them to walk, one
of the reasons is that they have drained away their vital
fluids / energy in enjoyment and are paying the price now
Be very very careful
in choosing your partner
Sexual union not only is something
operative on the physical plane, but also on the psychic (astral) plane. This
psychical union may be harmful to the higher-bred person of the two who are
engaged in the intercourse, that means during the process one partner who has a
lower spiritual level stands to gain and the other with a higher spiritual
level loses
Please click on the link to read
this article
Sexual promiscuity is dangerous for
many reasons; because
(1) The aspirant's karma becomes
entangled with the other person's karma.
(2) One becomes psychically infected
with low thought-forms hovering in the other person's aura.
(3) We must consider the effects of our
actions upon the lives and the character of others. We just cannot dump our
lust on someone else. We are to help their evolution, not their retrogression (the
process of returning to an earlier state, typically a worse one)
(4) Intercourse with many unevolved
types gives a special shock to the nervous systems of those who practise
meditation and disintegrates something of their achievements each time.
On prostitution
See how the face, body of a
prostitute becomes, how badly her aura is damaged
See the effects of lust, her body
turns black
One look at the lady and you can
make out that she has collected so many sexual impurities
The person visiting a prostitute
also gets a bad destiny
Corinthians 6:12-20 “do you not know
that he who is joined to a prostitute becomes one body with her? For, as it is
written, “The two will become one flesh”
Corinthians 6:15-17, “Don't you realize
that your bodies are actually parts and members of Christ? So should I take
part of Christ and join Him to a prostitute? Never! And don't you know that if
a man joins himself to a prostitute she becomes a part of him and he becomes a
part of her? For God tells us in the Scripture that in His sight the two become
one person."
The so called tantra love practices
are nothing but inferior tantrik sects who have eagerly used the teaching to
make their sexual desires appear as holy aspirations and they are held in ill
repute by many Indian authorities. They are nothing but a prostitution racket;
just relieving the sexual stress, like the medical doctors who invented
vibrators almost two centuries ago, when they were interested in a labour-saving
device to spare their hands the fatigue they developed giving hand jobs
(masturbating) to a steady stream of 19th century ladies who suffered from
“hysteria,” a vaguely defined ailment easily recognizable today as sexual
frustration.
I quote Dr Annie Besant “We may hope
that, as sexual morality becomes more generally recognised, it will be seen
that the essence of prostitution lies in the union of the sexes without mutual
love; when a woman marries for rank, for title, for wealth, she sells herself
as veritably as her poorer and more unfortunate sister; love alone makes the
true marriage, love which is loyal to the beloved, and is swayed by no baser
motive than passionate devotion to its object, when no such love exists the
union which is marriage by law is nothing higher than legalised prostitution:
the enforcement on an unwilling man or woman of conjugal rights is something
even still lower, it is legalised rape.”
On youth, sex and
marriage
I you marry keeping sex in mind you
become porn actors only
Present youth understand nothing of
sex discipline, they are not taught what virtues are, they have such a casual
approach towards sex not realizing that they are corrupting their DNA, they
will only bring unworthy souls in this world
It is clearly mentioned in the Bhagwad
Gita that when a woman copulates outside marriage she becomes corrupt, the DNA
gets corrupted and this results in unworthy, inferior children and the
degradation of the entire lineage
But do todays parents realize this?
when a child is born the parents subscribe a full financial package to take
care of all the financial needs till the child becomes an adult, they give the
child the best education, they buy expensive gadgets, but do they implant moral
teachings in the child, do they talk to the child about religion, about the
purpose of life—I have started writing
this series for this reason
It is said that the hand that rocks
the cradle rules the world, but if you look at the facebook profiles of most
girls you see only selfies (a photograph that one has taken of oneself,
typically one taken with a smartphone or webcam and shared via social media),
what sort of children such a lady will raise
I happened to see this program “Koffee
with Karan” on TV (I have disconnected the idiot box {a television set} long
ago) the host was chatting with a film star and his wife, he asked the wife
about her past boyfriends, the husband quickly said “No less than mine
(girlfriends).” And further added “I'm still discovering boyfriends of yours”
and all three laughed HA HA HA…………what a
generation. Where sexual purity has no meaning
The older generation did it too, but
in a discreet manner; the new generation does it openly
Today’s manner less
youth are a direct result of the sexual degradation of their parents
The children who would
be born to parents whose mating’s are few, whose minds are pure, and whose
hearts are aspiring, would be markedly superior in every way.
Sex is for higher purpose
A substance so valuable that it can
create another human being must be used in accordance with its value, not
squandered in unthinking indulgence.
Sex is noble if you elevate it
otherwise one is still in the animal stage of evolution
Those physical and passional
conditions which pass for love among the young--with their uncontrollable
sensuality, their total unconcern with higher values, their puppet-like
copulation--all show that they have still to outgrow the close ties which they
still have to the animal stage of evolution.
Sex has become a pass time, nothing
to do so have sex, the older generation which should have long retired to spent
a life of prayer and meditation and spiritual elevation are so very active in
sex
The system of dowry is such a big
curse in India, women have suffered so much, but when the same woman becomes a
mother in law she would want a huge dowry from her son’s wife
The virtues in a girl are not
considered only the amount of wealth she brings is taken into account as a
result characterless girls are given away in marriage, they bring the degraded
DNA and bear unworthy children the destiny of the entire family is affected—indeed millions of families have paid a
huge price in India when they chose money over virtue
Also, the mothers mostly in northern
parts of India have failed to impart a culture into their sons that women
should be respected, and taken care of, it is written in the Vedas that where
women are worshiped there the God’s dwell.
The common thought is; it is ok, he
is a boy, so he has the licence to be irresponsible in his sexual behaviour
How many parents teach their
children that in our Vedic culture, we worship small girls who have not reached
puberty, we treat them like Goddesses and the boy should have the same attitude
towards other girls
Kahlil Gibran has
written this on Children
Your children are
not your children.
They are the sons
and daughters of Life's longing for itself.
They come through
you but not from you,
And though they are
with you yet they belong not to you.
You may give them
your love but not your thoughts,
For they have their
own thoughts.
You may house their
bodies but not their souls,
For their souls
dwell in the house of tomorrow,
which you cannot
visit, not even in your dreams.
You may strive to be
like them,
but seek not to make
them like you.
For life goes not
backward nor tarries with yesterday….
So it is clear that one must not
interfere in the life of youth but let them go on their own; after all they are
a result of the collective consciousness of the world and beyond; but I give this
advice to the youth that: -
I am not saying that
the path to light and enlightenment is for the impotent
do not shun sex like
some schools of thought tell you
The body is not
polluted by the presence of sexual organs as some ascetic seems to believe.
Nature is wiser than they are. She evolved them in all her wisdom.
But I keep repeating
in my blog that what you need to understand is that love is more profound than
lust
And I clearly say this
that a person who has a healthy platonic relationship does not long for lust
A pure relationship is much more
fulfilling and it elevates you
Do not aim that a girl
opens her legs for you; strive to become a man to whom the girl would want to
open her heart—then you have lived your life well—and you have indeed walked
the pilgrimage called life
As
base metals are transmuted to Gold; that is the Alchemy of metals
As
dirt is transformed into a fruit; that is the Alchemy of a tree
Be an alchemist and
transform lust into love
Like Krishna dancing in abundant joy
with the gopies is platonic relations at their best
Enjoy this video
keep fighting the battle against
lust never give up, you may fail a thousand times—this is your kurukshetra, the
battle field of the Mahabharata where the Lord preached Gita; if you restrain
your physical self but keep thinking about it in your mind, it is as bad as
having a physical relationship; instead try and elevate your spiritual level,
your consciousness, then automatically you will no longer long for lust
It is said that only when God
appears he will relieve you of lust ; God resides in you the day you can tune
in with yourself you evoke him, so try and find your higher self and you would
be liberated
You can use music to your advantage;
listen to your favourite music to deviate your mind--- Pythagoras, the great
teacher who was initiated in India is said to have possessed such knowledge of
music that he could use it for the controlling of men's wildest passions, and
the illuminating of their minds.
Youth who get together may discuss
something constructive or spent their time in building some engineering project,
instead of talking about sex; in this way a good vibration is created which
will certainly help them in life
Lao Tzu said the man of Tao is free
from the consciousness of sex.
The act of sex
During sex another
power takes over you—you can never be in
control of yourself, it is the surrender of the attitude of being in
control of oneself
“If tomorrow, women
woke up and decided they really liked their bodies, just think how many
industries would go out of business.” ~ dr. gail dines
Watch this video; it
is truly an eye opener
Almost 70% of pages in the women’s
glamour magazine are paid content or advertisements
Models are decked up in makeup and
are photoshopped meaning a
photographic image is digitally altered using Photoshop image-editing software.
These magazines actually destroy the
self-esteem of women
Watch one more beautiful video of a
nude artiste-- A woman's body. Beyond
the erotic to recognize the divine -- who says that every woman’s body is her
biography….ever scar has a story, every wrinkle a testament to a life lived…….
Few more points
There is a feeling of sadness after
the sexual act; it is termed as Post-coital tristesse (PCT) or post-coital
dysphoria (PCD)
Around 150 AD, the prominent Greek
physician Galen wrote, "Every
animal is sad after coitus except the human female and the rooster."
A feeling of guilt follows after
masturbation
But after a nocturnal emission,
informally known as a wet dream; there is no feeling of sadness or guilt, since
it is a natural process to relieve tension
A wife can do much more to mar or
make man’s life
If one’s family has a
history of broken marriages etc. and is unable to find a suitable life partner;
such a person must understand very clearly that this is due to the sexual
impurities / karma that the lineage has collected, and must try to lead a pure
life and accept his or her destiny and be very careful about their behaviour so
they do not collect any bad karma
Everyone thinks that solitude is their
problem; every one suffers from solitude at some stage or other, but people
close their doors and are not ready to come out of it
There is a reason that the female
reproductive organs are inside the body and male reproductive organs outside the
body
It is wrong that-- spiritual
fulfilment / enlightenment is only possible if one denies sex, the true
statement is spiritual fulfilment / enlightenment is only possible if one comes
out of lust
As per the occult studies of the
Zoroastrians: the female sex possesses
in her eyes a power nine times more effective than that in a male, and which is
known as "Vanthvo Frado",
i.e., one of the five magnetic powers (Frad) present in water in its
original, natural and pure state. Owing to the high extent of this
Vanthvo-Frado power in a woman, she possesses in herself the art, as it were,
of placing in the mouth of the opposite party whatever words she likes.
Consequently, a child picks up more easily what is imparted by a female teacher
than by a male, this is the reason why a female teacher is by nature more
suited than a male for imparting primary training
In the past female members of the US
army were effectively used to negotiate with rebel groups to surrender
The forty-eight or in some editions
sixty-four postures described in the book on sex love called Kama Sutra, now
widely translated and published in the West, are simply forty-eight or
sixty-four ways for a man to lower himself to purely animal status. In fact
several of them are given animal names by the author.~ Paul Brunton
“Chastity is not the same as purity, although
the two are often confused. The one is a way of outward life; the other a state
of inner life.” ~ Paul Brunton
"Chastity is a mind that is
completely free from all image making, all the pictures, sensations, which
thought has built in its search for pleasure through sex. Then you will find an
abundance of energy." ~ Krishnamurti
The man who says, "I love
you," too often means, "I want your body."
All the problems in
this world are related to over population
One must use the blessing of the
Internet to gain knowledge; most people only use the social media to socialize
or for entertainment
It is pathetic that over the years,
the top searched image on google search in India is of a female porn actor
turned film star—there is so much knowledge available on the internet, yet most
people only pursue what pleases their senses
The snake crawling on its belly is
as close to the earth as any animal could get. As a symbol this creature stands
in ancient scriptures for earthly pleasure. And since there is no pleasure so
intense as the sexual one, it has come to stand for that particularly. The
snake rearing its head and holding itself upright stands for the overcoming of
sexual passion. It is not only a symbol of such mastery but particularly of the
power arising from its being diverted toward spiritual knowledge and
aspiration.
That aspirant has attained purity
who no longer desires any human being but only pure Being itself. Thus he
passes from the personal to the impersonal, from passion through penitence and
self-discipline to utter tranquillity.
The person who desires
true love has not understood its meaning----- True love---- is
unconditional---not self-seeking---it can only be given---never expected
We talk of merging with the almighty
God, but first are we capable of giving true love; how many times we have stood
with the powerful and how many times we have sat with the broken?
We perform puja (the act of worship)
at our work place during Diwali, my Christian colleague refused to take part in
the ceremony and also refused the prasad (a devotional offering made to a god,
typically consisting of sweets /food that is later shared among devotees)
saying that his God does not allow this—later on he developed an adulterous
relationship with a lady---does his God allow this?
Matthew 5:28 “But I
tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed
adultery with her in his heart.”
Do you not know that your bodies are
temples of the Holy Spirit; keep them as pure as possible
An interesting fact
One of the earliest, if not the
earliest, home pregnancy tests came from Ancient Egypt. In 1350 BC, women were
advised to urinate on wheat and barley seeds over the course of several days;
if the wheat sprouted, she was having a girl, and if the barley sprouted, a
boy. If neither sprouted, she wasn’t pregnant. The most interesting thing about
this test was that it actually worked: In 1963, a laboratory experimented with
the wheat and barley test and found that, 70 percent of the time, the urine of
pregnant women would cause the seeds to sprout, while the urine of non-pregnant
women and men didn’t.
The reason I feel why this test
fails 30% today is because of the chemicals present in the food chain and in
our bodies
“If you want your wife
to be a Goddess, worship her.” ~ Clairette de Longvilliers
Marble sculpture by Bernini named
Pluto and Proserpina—compared to this art, today’s modern art is garbage
Kahlil Gibran on
Love {from the prophet}
When love beckons to you,
follow him,
Though his ways are
hard and steep.
And when his wings
enfold you yield to him,
Though the sword
hidden among his pinions may wound you.
And when he speaks to you
believe in him,
Though his voice may
shatter your dreams
as the north wind
lays waste the garden.
For even as love crowns
you so shall he crucify you. Even as he is for your growth so is he for your
pruning.
Even as he ascends
to your height and caresses your tenderest branches that quiver in the sun,
So shall he descend
to your roots and shake them in their clinging to the earth.
Like sheaves of corn
he gathers you unto himself.
He threshes you to
make you naked.
He sifts you to free
you from your husks.
He grinds you to
whiteness.
He kneads you until
you are pliant;
And then he assigns
you to his sacred fire, that you may become sacred bread for God's sacred
feast.
All these things
shall love do unto you that you may know the secrets of your heart, and in that
knowledge become a fragment of Life's heart.
But if in your fear
you would seek only love's peace and love's pleasure,
Then it is better
for you that you cover your nakedness and pass out of love's threshing-floor,
Into the seasonless
world where you shall laugh, but not all of your laughter, and weep, but not
all of your tears.
Love gives naught but
itself and takes naught but from itself.
Love possesses not nor
would it be possessed;
For love is
sufficient unto love.
When you love you should
not say, "God is in my heart," but rather, "I am in the heart of
God."
And think not you
can direct the course of love, for love, if it finds you worthy, directs your
course.
Love has no other desire
but to fulfill itself.
But if you love and
must needs have desires, let these be your desires:
To melt and be like
a running brook that sings its melody to the night.
To know the pain of
too much tenderness.
To be wounded by
your own understanding of love;
And to bleed
willingly and joyfully.
To wake at dawn with
a winged heart and give thanks for another day of loving;
To rest at the noon
hour and meditate love's ecstasy;
To return home at
eventide with gratitude;
And then to sleep
with a prayer for the beloved in your heart and a song of praise upon your
lips.
Photos of my home; I
am blessed to live in green surroundings in a city
The place of worship
Meditation room
I type my blogs from
this laptop
Next article will be
on death
